Happy Birthday to my child

Today is my sponsored child's 9th Birthday. ^^ Happy Birthday to him and wish him always happy and healthy.... Maybe I should send a present to him later.

According to the rules, we can't send them expensive presents. This is because it might breakage the relationship among the sponsored children, the other children might be jealous of each others. We are encouraged to send them a simple birthday card or simple present.

Oh ya, I forgot to tell you who is my sponsored child. So I just simply introduce him here. His name is Mukansi,Kulani Giften. He is 9 years old and from South Africa. Now he is studying in primary school. His favorite subject is Mathematics.

I wish him can be always happy and healthy....

Looking toward on weekend

Finally it comes to weekend and the busy weekdays are going to the end. I had been very busy since the last Monday. My rest time is getting lesser and lesser.

I remembered an article said that :

"When you feel time is not enough for you, it means that you do not utilize your time properly"

Now, I can understand the meaning of the article. It's true, it maybe I do not allocate my time properly. Sometimes I might waste a lot of time to certain stupid things. I think it's time to say goodbye to it.

In the coming weekend, I will go back hometown and I want to take a big rest at my home. Also I would like to plan how to allocate my time for my coming days properly. I don't wish to waste time anymore such as maybe I should concentrate on my study more. Other things I should put it away....

There is another song I would like to share with you. The song's name is The 105th Day. Wish to know what will happen to me in the period of 105 days ^^

The Truth that You Leave

For those who are reading my blog, please pay some patience to click the youtube below. I just need few seconds from you. If you think the music is not nice, you can press Alt+F4 to close my blog.




Today i just want to share this music with you. Thanks for my housemate, he is the one who recommended it to me ^^

I had been very busy in this few days as usual. Nothing much to write today. I just want to share music today, let's take it as a music day ^^ , haha...

I will update my blog soon....

A personalist test

Let's give you a personalist test. It would like to test whether you can pass a test when you are facing to make decision or not.

That is a question asked from a company when they are interviewing the candidates. Maybe you can try this , see whether you can pass the interview or not. ^^

One day, when you're driving and it was raining heavily, you saw three people standing in a bus stop. With condition, you can only fetch one people.

The first person is an old guy and he was ill-ing badly . The second person is a doctor who helped you before and you want to render back him. The third person is he/she whom you want to marry with but if you lose this chance you will never see him/her forever.

Now you can choose whom you would like to fetch. After that, please explain why do you choose the answer.

Different type of people has different answer. Some might think that, the old man was ill and should send him to hospital immediately. Some might think that, death is the last destination of an old man so they should fetch the doctor because he saved your life before.

However, some might think that we can repay an obligation to the doctor next time, we can't lost the chance to get someone whom we love. If we lost the chance, we might not be able to see him/her again.

There was over 200 candidates in the interview session but there was only one people pass the interview and get the job. He didn't explain the reason of the answer he chose , he just said that

"I will give my car key to the doctor and let the doctor sends the old man to hospital. While I will stay at the bus stop with the girl."

When I saw the answer, I understand why the company will hire him. He is brilliant and smart. Almost of the people never think about this answer in the first second included me but he did it.

Is this because we never think to give up our predominance (the car key) when we need to make decision ? Sometimes, we should learn to control our stubbornness and might learn to give up the stubbornness and predominance.

We might be able to gain more at the end......

Busy week

This week, I was so busy until I almost want to give up everything and go back my hometown to relax. From last Monday, I had never stopped to work, study and meeting.

9 Feb: I worked at Ampang and Cheras for the Chinese Valentine events. It was so tiring but it gave me a lot of fun also. That was the first time, I felt I was a star, hehe...During the both events, my partner and me were requested to take a lot of photos. A lot of camares were focing on us, haha... But honestly, I don't really like the feel. It was tiring... After finished my job, I went to join my friends to pick mandarin orange in PJ, haha...very funny. There was a lot of people but less leng lui there. After that, I had created a lot of new ideas to modernize the traditional.

1) Change mandarin orange to watermelon because we only can write our name and contact number on the orange. It is not enough information. If we changed it to watermelon, we can write more information on it such as Full Name, Contact number, MSN, Friendster, YM, Facebook, Home phone, Address. See, it is nicer ?? it is more informative. ^^

2) I found that the mandarin orange is so expensive at that night. If we want to save cost, we can bring ourselves. But I have another better ideas, we can give flyers !! If we throw the orange in the lake, the probalility of the orange will be picked is low. If we give flyers then the higher probability that the people will get to know us. Am i right ?? ^^

3) We shouldn't throw the orange in the lake because it is same with littering. The lake is poluted. Some more, if we throw the orange to far, people cannot get our orange then it was wasted and the orange cannot be eatten anymore, it was so dirty. So i suggest that, we should change the lake to a big barrel. It is clean and easy. Is it better ?? ^^

Haha...when i tell this ideas to my friends, they laughed.

10 Feb: I started my boring class again. I was busy from morning until night. At night, I had meeting and it ended up around 1130pm. It means that I was staying in University more that at home. I really don't like that, it was so tiring.....

11 Feb: It was same with yesterday. I was busy from morning until night. Morning- class, night- meeting. Urghh.....I really felt boring about that. After that, I went to yam cha with friends. Only that moment, I felt myself was free and I enjoyed the night so much. We talked about last Australia trip. We laughed a lot. I really like the feel.

12 Feb: Today is same as usual. At morning, I was busy for my class and at night I was busy for my On-air slot. I'm a DJ in my university society which is radio MMU. Anyone if you feel free you can login our website to listen it. radio.mmu.edu.my and my slot is every thursday 8pm-10pm. Hehe...^^

13 Feb: Today, I skipped the class because I overslept this morning. I was too tired this few days, i slept around 3am and wake up at 8am almost everyday. This morning, I really failed to wake up to my class. Tonight I need to go Taman Cheras Connought to have meeting with my colleage. Haiz...it was so tiring for me because I have to drive alone around 30-45mins to there and come back alone again. Some more, the next morning , i have to wake up early morning to work again...

Why my life is so busy. My housemates always say that they always can't get me at home,haha.... I wish I can stop this kind of life. I wish I can do what ever I like. Some of my friends said:" you won't feel boring since you are so busy". Sometimes, that are not what I want. Sometimes I felt so boring about that even I was really very busy and tired.

I wish I can change this kind of life soon....

I took this pic when I was alone at home^^

God is unfair ?

Once upon of time (wahse...first time i use this words ^^, once again...)

Once upon of time, there were 5 children picking fruits in an orchard. During picking the fruits, they were so happy and they played and sang together in the orchard.

After few hours, they picked all the fruits and gathered in a place to distribute the fruits. Suddenly, they started to quarrel,

A said:" It is not fair ! Why I get less than him ? I want more !"

B retorted:"I worked harder than U and I picked more fruits than U. It's sure I can get more than U!"

C said:"NO! NO! NO! , I picked more fruits than you all ! I should be the one who can get the most of fruit"

They were keeping on quarreling and they forgot the fun when they were picking the fruits in the orchard. At this moment, a priest was walking through the orchard. Suddenly a child suggested that ask for the priest's help to allot the fruits.

They believed that the priest was impartial and can help them to solve the problem. All the children agreed with it and the priest was willing to help them.

The priest asked:" You want to choose which method to allot the fruits for u ? Using the God method or human method ?"

The children replied:" Of course we want God method because God is impartial and sapiential."

Totally, there were 30 fruits. The priest gave the first child 20 fruits, the second child 6 fruits, the third and fourth 2 fruits for each and the last child can't get any fruits.

There was only the first child happy with the allocation and the other four children deprecated the allocation.

The priest said:"This is the way which God uses to allot, some people might get more, some people might get less and some might can't get anything."

All the children said:" We don't want it. We want to choose human method to allot the fruits."

After that, the priest gave them 6 fruits for each and the children smiled. This time, they satisfied with it.

After reading this story, I feel that is true. Sometime, there might be someone can get more, someone will get less and someone might can't get anythings. But the most important is how do we hold what we have now. We should always appreciate what we have. Don't always care for what the others have.

If we can't protect well what is in our hands now, do we have the right to care for what the other have ?

Hope

Once upon of time ( waseh.... first time i use this words, ^^ once again..)

Once upon of time ( It remind me a song, "You are my angel" . The starting is "Once upon of time...." , ok ok ! i know i haven't started my story yet . Restart lol )

Once upon of time, there was a patient in a hospital. He very badly ill. His illness was getting worse and worse. One day, he was lying on his bed and looked at a tree which was at outside the window.

He saw the leaves falling down from the tree and the tree became bald. He felt that he was same with the tree. His life was flowing away liked the leaves. He said he will die when all the leaves fell down.

From the day, he was always in depressing and despairing mood. All the people around him very worried about him. One day, a drawer knew the news about him and the drawer would like to help him. The drawer drew a leaf which looked alike with a real leaf and the drawer hung it on the tree.

The last leaf never fell down from the tree. Because of the last leaf, the patient was alive. It was so miraculous that he recovered his illness at the end.


From the story , it would like to tell us, we could lose a lot in our life but we can't lose our HOPE. HOPE is one of the important things in our life. It pushes us forward, it helps us to get away from desperation and dread and it helps our life continuing forever!

I would like to share this story with those feel perplexed and depressing now especially to my blogger friend, Willy. I hope you can stand up soon and hope your father can recover soon. Please trust your father, he won't be defeated by illness so easily and wish you can contact with your hubby soon.

Giving myself 17 advisement

Today , i read an interesting article from a website. The title is "Giving myself 17 advisement" (translated from Chinese by Mr. David, hehe...^^)

I feel those advisement are quite suitable for us in applying to our daily life. Let's check out , does it work for you also ??

1. Set your target and achieve it

2. Always smile ^o^

3. Learn to share with others ( don't share love !)

4. Be willing to help

5. Protect your childishness

6. Learn to mix in with others

7. Always be humorous

8. Learn to forgive others

9. Find more intimate friends

10. Always cooperate with others and Experience the happiness from the process

11. It's great to Love

12. Always be confident

13. Respect the people who is weaker than U

14. Give a break to yourself sometimes

15. Come to chat when you are free

16. Be provided with courage and guts

17. Don't be enchanted by money ( i think it is quite hard to do it, i like money , i LOVE money,haha...)

The rain in Life

I would like to share a story today.

One day, Micheal and John want to attend a party. When they want to depart from their house, suddenly it rained heavily. Micheal felt so upset and worried will they be late to the party.

Both of them were looking at the raining,

Micheal asked: Do u think when the rain will stop ?

John replied him softly: All the rain will stop.

From the answer of John , he let me know one thing.

"Did you see the rain never stop before ?"

Rain will stop no matter how heavy of the rain, no matter how it make us feel agonising, it will stop at the end. Moreover if the rain was getting heavy and heavy, it predicts that the rain will stop earlier and sooner. As long as we are patient, we can wait until the rain stop. The sky will turn back to it's beauty and the dusty air will be rinsed by the rain and become fresh.

Sometimes, we might be able to see the rainbow that we maybe not be to see in the sunny day after the rain !

So when the rainstorm happened in our life, we shouldn't feel depressing and disappointed. It might be the beginning of blessedness or it might be a favorable turn of the life.

Why don't we smile and be tough to face the problem? Some more, is there no rain in the other sky ?

"Your life is same with others, where the life is , where the rain will be"

Boring classes

I was too boring in room at this noon so I took a new pic

Today , I woke up at 8am. My class is at 9am. Usually I will wake up one hour early to prepare me myself, grooming and have my breakfast ^^ From my hostel to my class , I need to walk around 10 mins . The first year when I was here I felt it takes so long to walk but now I am used to it. I take it as a morning exercise, haha...

The first class was so boring, it maybe I am still in CNY mood. I can't really concentrate in class. After that, I started "fishing", haha.... But it was just for few minutes because my friends woke me up. I started follow the lecture and I wrote down all the points from the lecturer. It worked, I didn't feel sleepy and I can concentrate to the class but the one hour passed very slowly ( I felt that....)

After I continued all the classes today. At the last lecture, that was the worst lecture in the whole day because there was no air-condition supplied in the classroom. It was so sweltering and very surfering in the one hour lecture.

After finished all the classes today, I went back my room and continue chatting with Jacky in msn. Today, I just added Jacky in my msn. We chatted a lot and I found that people around him called him "leng lui"( pretty girl ) haha..... But it was a nice msn conversation with him.. ^^

After end the msn with Jacky, it was already 6pm, Dinner time. Suddenly, I miss the food cooked by my mum so much. I hate eat the outside food, that is not nice. No matter how , I still have to have my dinner, I was so hungry at that time. Then I went out dinner with MengTze again today.

Yesterday, when I was having dinner with MengTze , we talked about next monday Chinese Valentine ( Yuan Xiao ). We planned to go the temple to pick the mandarin orange on next monday,haha... Actually that is one of the chinese traditional culture. Every year at the end of CNY is the Chinese Valentine, all the single boys and girls will go to the temple where has a river inside. The girls will write down their contact number or msn or what ever that can contact to her on the mandarin orange. After that, the girls will throw the orange into the river and let it follows. The boys who are standing opposite the river will drag for the orange. If the boy get the orange then the fate will bring the girl together. It is so easy, right!? But....that is only a legend. So far, I don't have any friend successfuly get their soul mate by using this method, haha.... How , never try never know ! Maybe U or ME will get it... ^^

back to boring Uni life

I didn't update my blog for few days, i was busy to celebrate CNY. Last few days, i slept at around 4am every night ( should be every early morning ) and i woke up at 930am ( my mum woke me up at that time everyday T.T). I was so tired everyday, my sleeping time was only 5 hours. Even it was very tired, I enjoyed it. ^^ ( am i shot jo (crazy) ?? haha...)

Everyday, I was together with my family and my loving aunty and cousin sisters. We laughed everyday and hang out shopping. Some more I can meet up with my friends every night.

I won so much money in gambling in this CNY, haha... I was so lucky. No matter in mahjong or card, i won money also, hehe.. i got extra ang bao . Thanks for my friends and my cousin sisters contributing it to me ^^

Happy hour always passess very fast. It's time to end up my happy holiday and CNY. Tomorrow my class will start, a busy but boring uni life will start too. Today , I departed from my hometown at 2pm and as usual i drove around 3 hrs to reach my hostel.

When i stepped into my room, it was so dusty ( I left my room for 3 weeks ), I felt so uncomfortable. At that moment, I wish i can go back my home. My mum always cleans my room for me T.T

Today, I have to clean my room myself. I sweeped and mopped the floor and cleaned up all the dust. It was so tiring.After that, i went to dinner with MengTze. We chatted all the funny thing that happened during CNY.

Just now, I was sitting in front of my laptop and thinking what should i do in 2009. I should plan for it, i don't wish to waste the time ( I'm getting older and older lol). I hope I can do something that can make my 2009 become more memorable and interesting like find a partner, hehe...

Anyway , i wish everyone is always happy and healthy.... ^^